I'm dating this guy for about 3 months. At the beginning for about 2 months he would contact me every day, and we'd talk. We're still not official but I thought things were going pretty well. But now the number of times he contacts me is decreasing pretty rapidly. I don't think he's losing interest, because he's still pretty affectionate when he sees me, I've hung out with his friends, and because I've grown to trust that he's not the kind of a jerk who will just drop off the face of the earth when he loses interest.
The last time we talked was Wednesday (initiated by me), then we accidentally ran into each other a couple times. Last time we hung out was on Saturday (with his friends) then nothing since then. Should I be upset? Well, I don't want to freak out at him. I want to tell him that I would appreciate it if he initiated, because I've been initiating most conversations for the last few times. When can I call him on it? Is it normal to go a few days without contact?
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Ever hear of puppy love? There was so much communication between you two that it made almost any lesser amount seem at times seem like desertion or a lack of interest/ caring. His thought process could likely be, "hey, I can do this relationship and do my own things as well. Also, if I don't talk to her everyday, we could actually have more interesting conversations when we do talk" Also highly possible that he at times is worried about bothering you.
Really just talk to him about it, communication frequency isn't a big deal.0