I have been inlove once and we kissed some but I never felt that butterfly in the stomach feeling or get lightheaded or feel happy or giddy because of it. I'm really Sure I loved him but I just put up with the kissing because he wanted to. I tried to date recently and have kissed some guys but I never feel anything. I can mostly taste what they had for dinner and even thou I am relaxing and try to think of romantic things and just be in the moment it's never good to me. I feel a lot happier and warm when a guy kiss my forehead. I love the affection I feel when he does that but kisses on the mouth/with tongue is just... Meh. What is wrong with me?! What can I do to have a nice romantic kiss without just wanting for it to be over?
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Maybe you're trying to hard to enjoy it or understand it. If you love someone and you kiss, you feel them up close, you look into their eyes, your sensitive lips touch, you taste each other... how to explain... look, when I kiss my partner most of the time, I don't just kiss, I place my hands around her, I gently stroke her back, her arms, her ribs, the back of her neck and if things are progressing towards something, I gently run my hands down the front of her. The whole idea is to stimulate each other, create enjoyable sensations, feel each other, embrace and understand their body with your lips you hands, with your body. Do you get what I mean?0