It depends on the girl in my opinion. Some girls just seem more of a "relaxed, don't text me all the time" after spending time with them, while others give off the "text me all the time, I like the attention or think it is sweet" vibe. Also, once you have been texting and been on a few dates, we get comfortable and start to know more about you. We kind of run out of questions, especially if the dates had a lot of talking. Plus, once you are dating us, some of the pressure is off and what we used to text you might seem a bit trivial or repetitive.
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It all depends what you're talking about I guess..if its the same stuff everyday..then of course its gunna get boring for him..but if its diff stuff..then there's no reason why you two shouldn't keep up a good convo...but if he's being distant and giving you one word responses back... not good
I think you're right. I've been dating a guy for about 3 months and he's definitely gotten lazier with the texts...
I think he doesn't want to come on too strong or clingy.
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You're overreacting.
I think it's natural to start texting a little less after you start dating. If you ask too many questions/trying to get to know the person over text, it can get boring.
If he stopped texting period, and acted distant to you in person, then that would be a problem.
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