I hooked up with a guy that I've known through work for about a year during winter break. We realized that we had both had mutual crushes on each other while we worked. But I was about to leave for college two hours away so nothing could come of it really, but he did say he would date me if I came home for the summer.
We've texted on and off since then, but he doesn't text me frequently. It seems like I will start the conversations slightly more often than he does, but up until a couple days ago we'd texted about every other day since I left. He says he'll come visit me here but he hasn't tried making any solid plans and I was the one who proposed that he come.
I don't know, should I hold onto this? I feel like he isn't making a huge effort. I know he finds me attractive, but perhaps my definition of crush and his are two different things.
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