I'm on a dating site but I'm rather shy so I don't know what to say. I talk to some people but never ask them out because I don't know what to say and fear they will say no. What to do?
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This is the beauty of online dating my friend. You will never meet these people if they say no. Don't fear rejection, fear never putting yourself out there and thinking "what if" for a while or for the rest of your life.
As my grandmother would say, there's only two answers in life (which, yes I know is highly illogical): yes or no.
So what if someone says no? It's their loss for not wanting to get to know you.
It's the internet, chances are you'll get better results going out and seeing which person you want to contact instead of having someone contact you.
Just remember that the chances of you actually meeting these people in real life if they reject you is not very probable.