guys could you offer us ladies some realistic pointers and guidance no matter what stage of the relationship we are in as to how to make him the most happiest in the world.. all the time...
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What makes us happy and what we want are two different things.
What has value are small things every day. When a men realizes after years. That he has no time at all but one day a week in the evening there is always some good snack and he can watch a football game with his friends. And you realize, that there is one sweet home making women who literally made time out of thin air so you could for twenty years. Then you cry.
I don't know about exactly because I am not that old and I have nobody. But I sure know that I shed a tear right now writing it.
Things you are grateful for are those you don't notice. You discover after a long tine that they were happening and that there is lot of them. Things that are good and you didn't have to ask for none.
I don't suggest you read the mind of other person. But you get to know him/her over time. And there are things that are great for everybody.
I is not hard, but it won't be noticed. If you brag about that, you are just being selfish. It takes love. And a lot of time. You maybe do a hundred of those a day and 2 get's to be noticed in ten years.
Believe me. It is not even about what is noticed. If you have strength to do those hundred small things a day for rest of your life, he will have unexplainable feeling that with you everything works. He don't have to notice to be happy.2