Why do some people simply not text first?

When you text such a person first, you may be talking for hours, but they never take the initiative. I don't understand this. Why don't they?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • I just don't feel like it. Not really a fan of texting to begin with. I usually only text first if I have something relevant to say or talk about.

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What Guys Said 1

  • take a hint girl. he probably isn't the first thing on your mind if you have to always initiate.

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    • It's not about a guy actually... It's about a friend, she doesn't text anyone first, not just me.

    • sorry. my bad then. well it could be that she's not bored/lonely/needy? sometimes it is our craving for attention and companionship that causes us to want to text someone. maybe she doesn't have that in her?

What Girls Said 3

  • I can be like that sometimes, I just don't feel like texting people unless they text me :)

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  • Cuz we don't wanna text unless someone texts us first

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  • because he isn't that into you. it takes a lot more thought to initiate a text than to just reply to one. I've texted people lazily for hours, half assing it, because they texted me first. not a big deal.

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