Hello, I am a 17 year old girl and never had a boyfriend before. Lately the thought of dating and being in a relationship is all I can think about it. It keeps getting harder for me the longer I have been single knowing that emotionally I am ready for something mature and real. I keep thinking that the more I think about wanting to be in a relationship the longer it will be before a guy will come along. It gets to a point where if a guy is flirty with me I automatically assume that he likes me when he is just being a guy basically. I know many people response will be to find hobbies. But I don't understand how that helps. I am involved with school activities and I hang out with my friends quite a bit too. Yet, I still continue to think about it. Any one else felt this way before? What did you do to get over it? Do you really believe in the whole he will come along when its the right time? I am getting a little impatient to be waiting around for the right time. When will it ever come?
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worrying about it won't help you at all, honestly. I'm kinda the same way. I go to an all guys school, so not many relationship oppurtunites. you just have to let go and let things happen, if it happens, it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't- that's my whole view on it.0