Ok. I joined a dating site (pof). I chatted with a girl who works where I used to a long time ago. As you can tell from my pic (aeropostale shirt) I'm not the best looking so I'm fearing she will say no
I told her I can stop by and visit and she said "if you want to :p"
What does :p and lol :p mean?
The only girl I ever went out with, who turned out to be crazy, asked me out so I never asked a girl before. Whenever I talk to girls I always doubt myself and am not a deal closer but I want to ask this one out as I think she is pretty. I don't think I'm the best looking and have low confidence and fear she will say no.
What can I do and say?
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Just go for it, ask her if she wants to go for a cup of coffee or your treat or something and just talk...but don't think of her as someone you want to intimate with just to get to know her. That way you take the pressure of you having to make her like you off your shoulders. Then you just see how things are going at the end of your "hanging out" and determine if you think she likes you, or you are going to be just friends. and based on that decide if you want to ask her to a diner if she seems to like you, or if you should meet up with some friends and do something another time. Just remember to give her compliments...but subtle ones and not just about physical appearance but like her she's funny and smart. Then ask her things about herself and look for things you have in common and then branch off a conversation on that. Then you can make inside jokes and stuff for the next time you hang out. Making it even smoother and you less nervous.0
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