I'm worried because my first date with this guy was almost three weeks ago. He's a little busy with school and work and our plans to hang out fell through recently. Our first date was really great but I don't know what move to make at this point. I'm worried that if I contact him he'll be caught up with work. Does it even make sense to keep waiting?
I should also mention that the only time I text him is to see what his week will be like and if he'll have a day off. Should I be texting him more? And about what? (I'm pretty new and clueless to dating)
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He could very well be busy with school and work, but he definitely would have tried to make time for you if he was truly interested (especially within a three week period). If he truly was busy and wanted to make time for you, then he would at least provide a counter-offer to reciprocate his interest. I'd say a good ballpark time would be about a week, thought it can be longer or shorter depending on people's schedules for example. Since it doesn't sound like he has attempted to reciprocate with you a lot, then you are probably better off without him. I know it sucks, but don't worry, we've all been here before. Move on and fine someone who is willing to make time for you.0