I save a guy's life by calling the police when he texts a friend of mine with a suicide note. He responds by spending the next month hitting on my friends saying he will cut himself unless they sleep with him to make sure he's OK. Tonight he did it to three of them and I restrained myself at throwing him out the door.
The girl I've liked for a few months was there. He'd been hitting on her, they were friends and she was a bit distraught, I knew she liked me to at least some level, and she started kissing me and holding me tight. I (wanting this to be a relationship and not some hookup) held her for a while, kissed her, but walked the douche bag depressed guy home. I come back to find her gone.
I discovered just now that she hooked up with an ex of hers, the first guy she'd ever had sex with. We'd been dating for two weeks now, I had hoped to actually be boyfriend/girlfriend soon. No chance now.
I have never been this furious. It seems whatever good I do or try to do bites me hard. It was all I could do to keep from beating the sh*t out of this poor depressed bastard. What in the name of f*ck am I doing wrong?
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Turn evil. It works better. No seriously if she wanted something more from you she wouldn't have left with a guy like that. You don't want that kind of girls... And also there is this possibility that she didn't do anything with him, maybe they just walked or something. Talk to her tomorrow and see what happened.
Also stop caring about depressed people so much. You can only do so much to help a person. Let him help himself. He is not your responsibility. You should be furious with yourself that you left a girl for a guy... seriously.0