Here is my situation:
I honestly have not dated in over 8 years. Between 2003 and 2011, no dating for me. I met someone online about a few months back. We hit it off. We had so much in common... It was so much so, that I spent $900 on a trip to Massachusetts to meet her. We hit it off even more when we were in each others' presence. When I got there, She wanted me to stay. But I run my own business in Detroit, Mi and HAD to return. We continued to talk. She mentioned to me that she has stage 4 ovarian cancer... We continued this long distance relationship until today. She refused to answer my calls and I sent a text to her... This is the exchange:
"Hey, babe... Are you ignoring me? I feel as if you are abandoning me..."
Her: "Yes that is it..."
"what do you mean?"
Her: "I abandon u"
Now, I have been depressed all day since this text... I was planning on driving there in about 2-3 weeks anyway... I was planning on going there for Valentine's day. I haven't dated in so long because my last girlfriend cheated on me (to which I caught her in the act! With my roommate!)
Should I still go to Massachusetts to see her again, or just give up on dating permanently? Those are my only two options. I don't want to be bothered with anyone else...
- Give up, and just focus on running my business because relationships are a waste of time....Vote A
- Still go to Massachusetts to plea to her....Vote B
The result: I will still be going there in 3 weeks on Valentine's day.
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Don't let others drag you down. She obviously has some issues and if indeed she has stage 4 ovarian cancer maybe it's her way of not letting you get too close and falling for her and then she dies (sorry to be blunt). I would keep trying with her if you truly like her and see where it goes. Don't give up on love ... you never know when you might bump into it and by the way you ve done better than me I haven't had a date since 20010