if you were 30 years old and single with a 9 year old would you try to build a relationship with: a woman who is 33 years old you, a housekeeper, married, and has 3 kids or the single, 24 year old, in college, no kids. I need honest answers please.
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the 33 yo would be the safest route .. and easiest
the 24 yo hasn't made it past the 30 year going crazy hurtle, might develop typical step child, not mine, hesitate to invest in child issues
3 year diff easier to manage than 6 years
That 24 year old would really have to do some growing up, loads of sacrifices, step up to the plate repeatedly & hit some home runs w/o crying too much - hers will be hard road, so hope there's love coming to her to pay for it0