HELP ME! If you were in "The Notebook", would you choose Noah or Lon?

I am in that exact situation. There is no difference except for our names! How do I choose between Noah and Lon? And what would you do if you were in my situation? ...Noah has just contacted me for the first time in 5 years. (I know, I know...in the movie it was 10. lol)


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Most Helpful Girl

  • Just based on the movie, Lon was the guy who loved you, would support you, and you could probably comfortable be together, but there just wasn't that level of passion or absolute adoration. And with Noah, you've just got that undying love and you know that you'll always be madly in love with him no matter what happens, no matter how many years you are apart.

    So really, what do you want? A guy who you do love comfortably, can support you, live together in peace, or a guy who is completely devoted to you, adores you, loves every inch of you passionately?

    I would definitely look into Noah again, and see where it goes, and hopefully it'll turn out just like the movie ending. If that's what you want, that is. =)

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What Guys Said 1

  • Any guy like Noah, deserves the woman.

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What Girls Said 6

  • Noah or Lon...

    Well I would have to go for Noah, but I am just picking from the movie. If your "Noah" just contacted you, out of no were then maybe you should really look into who is the better person for you? Your "Noah" or your "Lon"? Think about how it would be if your "Noah" had not even contacted you at all, would you have even gave Yours and "Lon's" relationship a second thought?

    Really think about the decision you will make, you don't want to have any regrets.

    Please let me know What you do and what happens...

    Hope I was some help.

    Cera

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  • I'd choose Noah just because I know how my first love is in a whole different level above every guy who's ever walked into my life. There's no feeling with any guy that compares to the one you get from your first love.

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  • I would say stick to Noah,because basiclly it's your first love well not you "you"but I don't konw time passes and your left with the doubt of what could of happend.If there's a logical reason for you and him "you Noah"not having a chance togeather go for it and it sounds like a second chance.

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  • noah ! he was her true and first love

    love comes before money stabilty and all that anyday in my books

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    • True...but she did love Lon too. And her parents totally hated Noah.

    • Well I think she loved lon too but wasnt in love with him like noah

      and in my eyes I really don't care what parents friends or family think about the person once I love them

  • In the movie it was 7...anyways Noah will love you, and Lon will love you, but just like Noah told Allie in the movie, who do you picture spending your life with? If you see it with Lon then go off with him, but if you see Noah, then love Noah. It's not about what everyone else wants, it's about what YOU want. Hope this helps!

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  • OMg Noah! was he your first love? Why not meet with him, and see what he wants? it never hurts to try. Also if he contacted you 5 years later, I think he has been thinking about you a lot. rarely does an ex contact, after 5 years of not speaking. Good luck!

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