I am in that exact situation. There is no difference except for our names! How do I choose between Noah and Lon? And what would you do if you were in my situation? ...Noah has just contacted me for the first time in 5 years. (I know, I know...in the movie it was 10. lol)
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Just based on the movie, Lon was the guy who loved you, would support you, and you could probably comfortable be together, but there just wasn't that level of passion or absolute adoration. And with Noah, you've just got that undying love and you know that you'll always be madly in love with him no matter what happens, no matter how many years you are apart.
So really, what do you want? A guy who you do love comfortably, can support you, live together in peace, or a guy who is completely devoted to you, adores you, loves every inch of you passionately?
I would definitely look into Noah again, and see where it goes, and hopefully it'll turn out just like the movie ending. If that's what you want, that is. =)2