I've been texting a guy for two weeks (met at my work and hung out at a party). He always texts first and seems very interested. We have only been texting because I went back to school which is 3 hours from his. He has invited me to his rugby games, to watch movies with him and use his hot tub/pool. He talks about his family, school and his life in general as well.
Some texts I have sent him have been very flirty. I have no experience with guys whatsoever, however, I am slightly flirty.
So I was wondering, will he think my texts mean more if I am flirty? I'm not planning on sleeping with him for awhile-I don't want to be perceived as easy because I really like him. I don't think he sees me as easy, but sometimes I feel like I might be leading him on through text.
Ex:
I told him I would be coming over to use him for his hot tub (jokingly) and then I told him to not forget. Then he said "Don't worry, I won't :) When are you coming back down?"
Am I leading him on? Should I tone it down? Or is it perfectly OK to flirt like that over text? Thank you!
Some texts I have sent him have been very flirty. I have no experience with guys whatsoever, however, I am slightly flirty.
So I was wondering, will he think my texts mean more if I am flirty? I'm not planning on sleeping with him for awhile-I don't want to be perceived as easy because I really like him. I don't think he sees me as easy, but sometimes I feel like I might be leading him on through text.
Ex:
I told him I would be coming over to use him for his hot tub (jokingly) and then I told him to not forget. Then he said "Don't worry, I won't :) When are you coming back down?"
Am I leading him on? Should I tone it down? Or is it perfectly OK to flirt like that over text? Thank you!
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He actually said " Oh I won't trust me :) When do you come down next?"
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