Girls go there to have fun, dance, drink I get that, but seems like guys just go there to hunt. Its kinda disturbing seeing guys go up and rub up on random chicks. Il admit I've done it and I've never felt so disappointed in myself, felt worse then going to the strippers. Clubs just seem so juvenile and immature to me now after a year of being legal age. Most of the time in clubs I actually find it degrading to men now because we make ourselves look like a bunch of hungry wolves...
Its been bothering me lately,
What do you think
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I agree, I'm 22 and I don't go out to clubs much. Once in a while with friends on special occasions. But I have to agree with you, it's not much fun. Random guys do come and start grinding and that makes it uncomfortable. I hate it, I realize people are out there to meet others, but why do that? Go up to a girl and try to start a conversation. I know it's hard to talk since there is loud music, but try talking and then maybe move to a table somewhere and talk.
When I went with my friends, my boyfriend and his friends met up with us. I was dancing with my friends when this one guy, who none of us knew, he was a completely random dude, grabbed my friend and began grinding on her. I was like "UH PUHLEASE!?" Grabbed my friend and got her out of there :P I thought it was kind of rude, and random.
But that was at a bar that gets kind of rowdy.
I think if you want a relationship, then you should be looking elsewhere. To tell you the truth, a bar really is only good for hook ups. Some people may find it a good way to meet people. But I beg to differ. Join a club, have friends hook you up, try online dating, go do a class somewhere. Do something that opens you up to other people, clubs are hard to see and here in. So it's no wonder many aren't successful.1