would you date a girl who is shy and wants to take things slow? even things like kissing, cuddles and holding hands is a bit much for me if I have only known him for a few weeks. how slow is too slow?
Taking things slow? am I TOO Slow?
Sorry but that's just too slow. Occasionally touching the hand comes after 3 or 4 meetings (they don't have to be dates as long as they as long conversations). Kissing comes naturally after I feel the girl is comfortable with me touching her hair. As far as cuddling goes, kissing basically is a green light to cuddling. I usually assume (most guy probably too) that the girl doesn't like me if she has issues with me touching her hands at least. Sorry that's just me :-(
Btw I know a couple of guys (who are virgins), that don't have an issue with how your behaving. I think you behavior is fine, with guys that are virgins. Hope it helps :-)
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I feel like I'm dealing with a girl like you right now. We have kissed but then she told me everything is moving far too fast. She told me she wants to take it slow, just be friends, and see if it develops into more. After making this clear to me she still said we could hang out a few days after this talk if I wanted to. Why tell me we can hang out if she's not serious about "taking it slow"? I'm going to try it even though this is new to me...I move fast.
In short, it can be tough but perhaps worth it in the long run.
Patience is a must, you can't force them to move forward//or//faster because you could push them away
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I personally couldn't stand it. Like...if I love a person I have to express it in every way I can. I don't know how to slow down when I'm passionate.
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Well it depends, it can go either way. I understand that some want to take it slow, but if it took too long, I would probably feel that she didn't like me.
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I would date a girl like that
i currently am dating a girl like yourself.. I usually waot for a girl to break the touch barrier when I notice she doesn't like to be touched -
You’ve got a month or two and then I’m onto the next person. Taking it too slow shows insecurity and lack of confidence in what you want in life or that you lack trust which is an indicator you’re still holding onto an old relationship trauma.
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Thats a little too slow for me
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