If you were looking for a long-term partner and found out the girl you're dating is a virgin and is waiting until marriage what would be your first thoughts? Would you be able to respect that or would you rather date someone else? I am not a religious fanatic or anything but I do want commitment and I want my first time to be meaningful and with someone I care about and trust. I don't mind a guy masturbating or watching p*rn or whatever but I do want to have a monogamous relationship. Does that sound reasonable or am I asking too much?
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I'd keep dating other people. I'd be open to dating her too, but not exclusively.
I think the ability/willingness to date someone whose sexual desires differ from your own is greater early on. It'll be much less of an obstacle for you today than it will be in 5 years time. Which is why you'll likely either get married early, change your mind about sex before marriage or become WORLD class at giving oral.1
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