So my boyfriend and I went to out to eat last night and he was texting one of his good girl friend. She was having a problem with one of her friends who was acting all suicidal. He told me that he was texting her to help her out. I had no problem with that, but then I told him I could help him out with his problem, because I had a few situations where I had to deal with something similar. He goes I don't want know.. So why would you listen to some girl who's your friend but not listen to your girlfriend? Plus he was texting her during dinner.. Is this rude or am I over reacting?
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If he made a habit of doing that, it would be very rude and probably unacceptable. But sometimes in life, things happen and they happen at inconvienent times and have to be dealt with RIGHT NOW. This sounds like it might well be one of those things.
As for why he didn't want to hear your story, I can't say. You really should ask him. Not in an angry way, but just "out of curiosity". He may actually have a good reason for not wanting to hear another tale of woe right then. The important thing is, if you're in a relationship with someone, you need to be able to talk about those kinds of things.4