Bowling for a first date?

OK so I'm going on a date this Friday...we are going bowling and then out for food. So my question is, how do I make bowling fun/flirty? Liven it up so she has a good time so I get a second date and more ;)


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  • Ahh I love you! Bowling is the absolute perfect first date for me! ha ha just like put your hands on her hips while she's waiting for the ball to come back, be silly! To me, being silly is the most important thing to keep it fun and not awkward. If you get a strike or something, do a stupid little dance to make her laugh. This is what I always do when I go bowling to make it fun.. Game 1) regular bowling Game 2) Use your opposite hand Game 3) Do the granny roll (where you turn around and shoot the ball down the lane between your legs)

    These are just fun little games I play to make it fun :) Good luck!

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    • all great suggestions

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    • And another thing, if I just wait and don't try for a second date, I will be able to see how she reacts. I'm not desperate for the second date but if she tries contacting me for it, I might consider it because she would clearly like me and I'm not wasting my time. And if I don't contact her, she would be thinking that I'm not calling her because she wasn't responding to my texts well because from what I said t her she should be thinking I'm going for a second date

    • Yeah that's a good idea. If you're not really like looking to go another date but will if she asks, then by all means just wait and see what happens. If she really wants to see you again she'll make it happen don't worry :)

What Girls Said 4

  • make the competition stronger. challenge her and say the loser has to (whatever you guys decide). be flirty about things. offer to pay for her meal. make silly comments about her bowing abilities, your bowling abilities or lack there of on either party (but keep in mind silly not mean). do shot backwards through your legs, do eyes closed shots, joke about how fantastic you are when you get a gutter ball :P

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  • oh man it's easy with bowling all you gotta do is be silly about your shots.. try to play around with her on her shots.. make jokes.. tease her.. you really can't go wrong with bowling.. just be outgoing and crack jokes and play around w/her :)

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  • If you have to think about how to make it fun/flirty while bowling then I suggest you find something else to do with your date.

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  • Make up a cheer for her! =P And if she sucks, help her, or tell her to granny roll. And every gutter ball she makes clap anyways lol. Try to be competitive, and if you win, pretend like you lost anyways aha.

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    • If he wins, why does he have to pretend that he lost?

    • Well because you know how they tell you to let the girl win? Well that's just cheating, and no fun, but at least he can pretend to make her feel better. =)

What Guys Said 2

  • Playful banter and inside jokes. Offer to buy her food if she wants any. Celebrate bad shots (on your part).

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  • This could totally backfire, so I don't take responsibility if it doesn't work. But I think it is hilarious when you sneak up behind someone when they are going up to bowl, and as they swing the ball back, grab onto it and take it from them. But it all depends on the person really.

    Also make jokes about having a contest where the loser has to walk home, enter her name as something silly, just have fun and be pleasant.

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