I went on a first date with this guy this past weekend and we had a really good time. I liked him a lot. When the date was over we agreed to meet up again and he told me that his schedule was open, pretty much putting the ball in my court to ask him.
Well I texted him the other day and after a few texts he asked me if I wanted to do something that night, well I couldn't but we agreed to go out tonight. He again, told me to let him know when was a good time for me. Again, putting the ball in my court. I'm not sure why he's doing this. Should I wait for him to text/call me or should I go ahead making the moves for this date and then leave it up to him? We haven't talked other than to schedule get togethers, so I'm not sure if this means he's not interested or just isn't a big phone person. I know he's not busy.
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alot of guys aren't very good at phone contact..we are brought up and taught to be physicial like talking face to face or touching..im the same as him he's not being lazy or anything he's just getting a feel for you guys don't get emotional over night it usaully takes something stupid like bumping your head or falling at work for us to think about women..no offense..but maybe like I said earlier he's just getting a feel for you because we all know a man doesn't lead the relationship women do we can manage the small thinks..but its not to good when he's not trying because its not fair to you but he might not like you as much as you like him so babystep him into things if he doesn't pick up speed just wait on him if not just move on..not saying things should go fast because it last longer with a better foundation which is only built over time..0