Okay.. For everyone who hasn't read my previous posts... I've been really crushing on this guy. I went with my aunt to her in-laws..and he (her younger brother in-law) had just moved back in with them. I was immediately attracted to him, which is weird..because with most people I see..I might feel a physical attraction..but I can let it go, & move on almost immediately, & completely forget about them. I told my aunt I was attracted to him, & asked if it was weird. She said it wasn't, he's not related, & anyone would be stupid not to notice he's attractive. I had no clue how to get a hold of him, so I sent a Facebook request. He hadn't been on in two years. His brother called him, chit-chatted, & told him he should check his Facebook. He got on, added me, & messaged me. He said he didn't get on there much, but he would try to check it more in the future. I replied saying that I was wanting to get to know him, and was wondering if there was another way to talk since he's not crazy about Facebook. He was already off before I sent it. A month had passed, and he still hadn't checked it. I got the opportunity to go back with my aunt a couple times. When we were alone in the living room, we started talking, & Facebook came up..I told him I replied back. He apologized for not checking it, & checked it & answered out loud, "Sure! I don't see a problem with us hanging out." But, we didn't exchange numbers. The next night, my aunt said to write my number down on a piece of paper, & he wanted it. I found out SHE ASKED HIM if he wanted it. He didn't call, or text. I sent a message on Facebook asking how his Christmas went. I had the opportunity to go & see him again, but didn't go.. He replied back a couple days later, & said it was good, how was mine, & ended it with, "We should get together soon?" I answered & he was already off. I had said yes, & asked if he still had my number. Nearly a month later he got back on, & said, "I'm so sorry I haven't called you. I have no good excuse, so I'll save the b.s. But how about dinner next week?" I said that sounded great, & asked if he texted. He texted me & said, "From time to time...etc...etc" & we texted a bit. He asked if next Friday was okay for me. We texted about music, & college, etc. I asked his middle name. He said, "Now we're getting personal aren't we?" & told me his middle name, & asked mine. I couldn't tell if he was kidding when he said that or what. It's so hard to tell when someone is kidding or being serious in a text or through e-mail. He had never heard my music before, & he asked if I'd burn him a cd...which I thought was cool that he wanted to give my music a shot. But then he hadn't texted me in a couple days..or called. My aunt told me to check with him & make sure that "Next Friday" wasn't this Friday, since that was on a Sunday & Monday when he mentioned it. He said next Friday was okay, & was 7 a good time to pick me up. I'm nervous. I have no idea if this guy is even physically attracted to me.
This Is My First REAL Date, Any Suggestions On Things To Talk About?
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