Hey guys I really like this girl. I know one thing Asian women hate and that is always hearing about the guy having an "Asian fetish". I am not partial to Asians; I like any girl with a good personality, good looks etc of any race. Anyway I do like Asian Culture and cuisine. I've even told her I'd like to travel there...
However how much is too much, I feel almost like I can't talk about anything Asian without her thinking I got some fetish with Asia. Maybe I am being way to odd about this whole thing. I am a little scared if I bring up things, especially food related things. Sushi / dim sum /Peking duck are some of my favorite foods. Do I need to lay off talking about Asia related things so she doesn't get the wrong idea?
Also, what do you girls like in a white man. (if your Asian)?
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I've dated an Asian girl or four. Lay off the Asian talk. Asian girls for whatever reason have this nutty idea in their heads that white men have "yellow fever". What a bunch of rubbish. If a white man dates a blond girl, does he have "blonde fever"? No. What about a Mexican girl? Does he have "Latina fever"? No. I haven't the slightest idea of where Asian girls thought they could get this special designation, but they have been sensitive to when I've brought it up. When in doubt, be as white as possible, don't talk Asian anything unless she brings it up. You may not have "yellow fever", but she might suspect it.2