My reason for why I stopped texting her:I was talking to a girl I liked over winterbreak through text for a month, but on the 3rd week or so it died down. I got a little frustrated on my end, because I was the one who was always initiating texts and coming up with conversations. She definitely showed interest over text (would answer my questions, say lol ha ha a lot, smilies, and turn the question back to me)I asked a lot of questions, so I thought that might have been the case, so I backed off. Also, since Dec 30, apparently she stopped recieving my texts (her phone is messed up--as she posted on a FB status several weeks ago), and I do believe her.. But why all of a sudden, I don't know?
We also planned on hanging out a month ahead of time, right before school started.. But she basically blew me off for her friends, and I got pissed. I backed of and stopped.
We have one class together.. And First week of school, I didn't even talk to her and I was trying to move on.. But all of a sudden on the 2nd week she approached me in class and sat next to me. We've been talking and flirting ever since.. But I still hold resentment, and just don't want to make a fool of myself by texting/calling her again, a well as the fact that I hate initiating all the time. The only times we do talk is in person during class, and a few times over fb message(just telling her about an internship).
I still like her, but I still hold some resentment.
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This reallly sounds like a situation I'm in. This guy has been texting me for a few months, on and off. He's always the one to initiate conversations because I don't feel comfortable doing that. He texted me again in December over winter break and wanted to hang out (but never suggested when, or what we were doing...) but then I got really busy with a family situation and I told him and he seemed to understand. But then he stopped texting me and I haven't heard from him since and that makes me really confused and I wonder if, like you, he felt like he was being too pushy or feels like I brushed him off...but I didn't think he was being pushy. I just wish he would tell me flat out that he was interested in me and wanted to get to know me better (the best way to solve misunderstandings in communication is to talk about it!)
I do feel hurt and confused about why he stopped texting, which makes me a little wary about even initiating texting him, because now I think he's not interested anymore.
I think you should let her know how you feel about her, and that you want to get to know her better. Right now, she may be confused about your intentions so she's being cautious and that's why she's not initiating texts. Just be consistent with your texts and don't randomly stop texting her with no explanation.2
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