We haven't talked for a couple months, and that's mostly my fault. We knew each other for a couple years, always had this flirty/teasing relationship. We had unbelievable chemistry. When she broke up with her boyfriend, who she was with for several years, I saw an opportunity, but let's just say things got messy.
Over the course of the next month or so, we went back to what we had before, but then I grew frustrated that it wasn't going anywhere, so I began to get cold, giving her short responses when I passed by her until finally it seems like she gave up.
Now we don't talk, although occasionally we'll look at each other.
I think I'm just liking her even more now that I don't see her as often so I'm building up the image in my head. But I do know that I have some feelings---say, if she starts going out with someone else, I know I'll be jealous and think why him, and not me.
My rational mind is telling me there's so many girls out there, but it's hard to feel that emotionally.
What should I do?
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I have to say that you sound exactly like someone I know. I'm conflicted as to what I should tell you. Clearly, I'd want the guy to make his move already, yet to tell you the truth my pride might get in the way and the result would be another sarcastic quip or lost opportunity.
You MIGHT want to set up a time and have a real discussion with her. Then again, you might not be the confrontational sort, so you might prefer to just let it pass and move on. The problem there is that you'd just be searching for her in every other girl you look at.
It has to be up to you, this decision. Look to your heart.0
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