I’m in my late 30s, and recently divorced. I have no children.
I’ve recently hit the dating scene again, and I’ve found that it is nearly impossible for me to be attracted to men around my age. I find men who are 5 to 10 years younger much more attractive, more interesting, and more fun to be with. Men around my age have no energy, just want to “settle down” and drink beer, or are just plain boring. I try to use a cougars dating site cougarchats.com from a friend of mine who come highly recommended. I upload a photo on the site. I got tons of responses from younger guys on there.
People often get shocked when I tell them my real age. I’ve already been out with a couple of men in their late 20s. Sometimes I think they get turned off by the age difference. Any advice on dating younger men, and how to hold on to them. After having been married for 20 years, I’m a bit rusty when it comes to dating. Also, what’s the best thing to wear to attract them. Please no “you shouldn’t be dating younger men!” answers, I hear this all the time and it makes no sense to me. Thanks.
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Older women are great, no hangups about sex, generally no games, and still attractive most of the time.
So how to do it is just go for it, talk to them, they'll know what's up. And don't worry about it try it a couple of times your flirting will come back with a bit of practise.
As far as outfits, dress a little more slutty if you want sex,
dress a sexy but not slutty if you want a relationship.
Best of luck :)1