I'm 24, almost 25, and I never had a girlfriend, I dated only a few times and I'm still a virgin.
I recently met a girl via common friends. We did some activities together with our friends, we chat and we text a lot, we are laughing together when we use ours webcams. She seems to really like me - and one of our friends told me she loves me - and I really like her too. I never loved a girl that much and I never met a girl who seemed to love me that much. I think things could rapidly lead her to become my girlfriend.
She's 20 and she had boyfriends before. I don't know how many and I don't know anything about her sex life.
The point is, I'm afraid of what I should tel her when the subject of our past relationships will be put on the table. Should I lie to her, be really evasive or tell her the truth? I wouldn't like to lie to her, but I don't want her flee because of my lack of experience... Any advice?
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dont lie about it and don't feel embarrassed either. if she suddenly is not interested in you just because you haven't had a girlfriend before then she's an idiot. (and obviously never liked you that much)
She will probably be surprised by it and ask a lot of questions as to why you never had a girlfriend but I don't think it really has much to do with it.
but also, she may not tell you how many bfs she's had or how many guys she's really slept with just because it would seem a lot more than you. So if you really want to know that and it matters that much, then you should ask her first so she doesn't play it down.3