I am 26 and trying to date a 37 , we get to know each online and she is very special. Not only is she beautiful, but she has a wonderful sense of humor and is very giving. The ability to talk about anything with her was refreshing and engaging. In fact, when I first met her on the cougarchats site, I didn't know I was attracted to an 'older' woman. I knew she was older than I, but I didn't realize the disparity in age until she told me (which didn't happen until a couple of dates into our relationship
but recently she just sent me a message saying :
Hi Thank you for your message. Actually I thought about the age gap we have and I feel its not right... I hope we can remain as a good friends.
I hope you understand how I feel...
How can I reply to this and win her round ?
I really like her and respect her but the age is big issue ,
I don't look 26 I look more like 30 ! Stress of work !
Any advice much appriciated
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If your interest in her real and genuine then ask her what changed her mind? Obviously she was attracted to you. Something must have happened along the way. Be sweet and shower her with genuine attention but not over the top. That always is a good move. Above all be real. I can't emphasize that enough. An older woman who is smart can sniff out fakes. so be real and consistent.0