My friends have advised me to "play the field" because I tend to just crush on people one at a time (Meaning one crush per semester of classes). I feel a bit uncomfortable with that suggestion because I feel like it might make me seem like a player or that I'm just ranking guys that I like based on 1st best then 2nd best etc.
Am I being paranoid or is there really decent to go about "playing the field"?
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When I was young and single, I only really went after one at a time.
Its not smart.
Definitely explore things (to a point!) with lots of guys, and don't stop doing that till you actually make a mutual decision to be exclusive. The guy you end up with you SHOULD have chosen over others, not just been like 'well I went for him and it worked out, so I guess I'll stick with it'.1