We are in college By the way. So this girl is pretty into me I think. We just met a few days ago and are going on a date soon. She texted me first in a really cute way after we swapped numbers and when I called to ask her on a date she didn't answer, but she called me back after listening to my voice mail.
So I bet you guys are going to say "go with how it feels", but actually explain that. Does that mean if the date was fun/decent, should I try for a kiss at the end? Or does that mean only if the date was awesome should I try for the kiss.
And I've never been the one to start a first kiss before so how should I try it if I do? Would it be good to wait until the end of the date and offer a hug and then keep my hands just above the hips and go in for the kiss right after the hug? Or what are other suggestions to make it the least awkward as possible.
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Going with how it feels basically means - get outside of your own head and try and see if the girl actually wants to be kissed. It doesn't just mean whether the date was fun or awesome - it means, actually trying to see if the other person wants it because sometimes the date can be great but that doesn't necessarily mean that the girl wants a kiss.
As for cheek or mouth, again that depends on what you want and what you think the other person wants. If you think she's shy, then just kiss her cheek. If she backs away when you're aiming for her mouth, then obviusly that's a no so either stop or change direction and just kiss her cheek.
The main advice is just to use common sense. There are no set rules about this ... well except the obvious and that is not to force her.1