In short I'm a person who follows principle, and what I see as moral, I've been this way through out high school. I've always planned things out and taken the less risky approach to life. However, I'm not sure if I should continue or not, I feel like I'm missing out on things, I don't know what to really do. After some other personal things with my ex, I'm considering it, not because of her, but because it seems like I've let things pass me by.
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There will be many times in your life that you are going to feel this way. I'm sure you have heard this before, but I'm going to tell you anyway, you are suppose to have these times of question in your life. If life were easy, all planned out, laid out in front of you, with no choices to make or ponder, how boring would that be? Now just because you contemplate your choices & you choose the moral or right way, that does not mean that you have chosen a boring path. Don't let anyone tell you that.
I work with kids & young adults (& their parents) who make those bad choices, and I can tell you from seeing first hand, it's not all it's cracked up to be. Maybe at the moment, there is some instant gratification, then there is hell to pay for what you did. Always. Now, maybe you won't pay here, right now, & maybe not on earth, but it will catch up with you someday. No doubt. Call it God, call it karma, call it the police...lol. What goes around comes around.
I know you're not talking about really bad stuff, but, some little things may be bigger than you think, when you are talking about, what did you say? "immoral" "risky"?
Follow your heart, follow what you know is right. You will be ok.
Good luck to you, my friend.1