I went on a date with this guy on Monday night, he lives about 40mins drive away so I drove, drank too much and ended up staying at his (no sex before you ask haha) and everything was great :) he is lovely and he said he def wants to do it again.
Im the type of person to get ahead of myself, so I'm trying to play it cool and I was having a conversation with my friend about who should text first etc etc... He thinks that if a guy doesn't text you he isn't interested... and I don't think that's true... any opinions?
Also, how do I carry on playing it cool? haha!
I met him on a dating site, and I want to keep him interested, I don't want him meeting other girls (although its a dating site, that's what its for etc)... any little tips would be helpful :) thanks!
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Of course he is in contact with other girls, but for a guy, you know, dating sites RARELY yield any actual dates because there are ten or more times more guys than girls on almost every site.
So you probably don't have much competition from that angle, don't worry.
You can safely play it cool, and see when he texts you. He certainly will, and how soon he does IS an index of how interested he is, although as you say it's not necessarily the most important event.1