I have only been dating my boyfriend for 4 months but he's overly obsessed with me he brought his best friend over who I have know for a while but haven't talked to for a while. We started talking after that day. At first I only thought he was cute I confessed to my boyfriend he didn't seem to care. We kept talking and video chatting every night and on the weekend we would video chat till 5 in the morning. People started getting suspicious that he likes me and told my boyfriend. He got worried and I don't think I like my boyfriend that much any more. I know I like his best friend and he told me he likes me too but I really don't know what to do he's all I think about and I don't even know how long to wait to go out with him if me and my boyfriend break up. Any advise would help. Thank you p.s his best friend is such a flirt and calls me pretty and beatiful and baby which makes me like him more.
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A guy flirting with his friend's girlfriend says a lot about his shallow character, so I don't advise you to bond with him.
The fact that your boyfriend was indifferent to your comment about his friend might also say that he is not really in love with you ..
You obviously need to break up with your boyfriend as fast as possible , and I suggest taking some time alone without any of them.. don't rush ! However, the time needed between the break up and the start of the new relationship totally depends on your boyfriend .. normally it should take a couple of months ( potential time for you to fall for each other ) .. but if your boyfriend is totally normal, and doesn't seem to be that much hurt, then you can do it sooner.. do whatever you feel is right . Good luck0