Just curious, it's like every/every other message.
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I tend to do it as well, especially if what was said is funny. Sometimes I will put ha ha down when I say something sarcastic so they know to take what I am saying as a joke and not seriously; this way they don't get offended. Sometimes, I will put it down when I am asking a serious question that if given the news I don't wanna hear would hurt me, because I've noticed when it comes to touchy subjects a girl might refrain from telling you something you NEED to hear (read) if they think you are asking seriously. However, if I were to ask the same question, but add ha ha after it, they might take it not so seriously and actually answer the question truthfully. Since there won't be a fear of hurting my feelings since they would think I am just messing around. Sometimes, they might answer it, and the answer might hurt, and I can tell that they were hesitant to tell me, and are afraid I might be upset with them over the answer. I will use the "haha" to let them know everything is alright, and that it's not that big of a deal... Keeps the conversation going, makes them feel more comfortable around me, and it's MUCH easier to control my feelings and pain than it is to try and ease her sorrow, regret, and/or embarrassment.0