We aren't officially a couple, but we've gone out a couple times and although we didn't all them "dates" they usually end up like one.
I feel like I'm putting in more effort into seeing each other than he is. I had to be the first to initiate contact after we went out last time, and even recently messaged him suggesting to go out again this Saturday. He asked me what I had in mind, and I shared my idea (spending time by the ocean). He responded really well saying "Sounds perfect. :) Actually, it's sort of romantic... are you trying to woo me? xP"
To which I said "Hm, is it working? ;) I was born with the ability to charm."
I'm not sure if he had a chance to read my reply because it was via. Facebook and it doesn't seem like he had been online to see it.
However, tonight I received a text from him saying that "Hey, I can't do Saturday. I have a lot of homework to do and I'm busy all day Sunday. Could we reschedule?"
Naturally, I'm bummed... honestly I don't know if it is time for me to let go of him. When we are together, we always enjoy ourselves a lot-- but I just feel like this is too much work. It isn't supposed to be THIS hard to start a relationship with someone right? I mean, if he wanted to be with me-- wouldn't he make the time? :/
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Sounds like a blow off to me, but I wouldn't completely be done with him yet, just pull back now and let him make the moves. After a guy blows me off I totally quit and let him chase me. If he doesn't? then oh well next week you'll have a new guy chasing you. I know it hurts but why would you want to be with someone who isn't interested in you anyway. And come on what guy does HW on a sat night? You can do better I'm sure1