Last week my friends with benefits asked me to go to a party with him. When I asked when and where he said he would get back to me. Now he texted me saying that it was a guy night. I was just a bit disappointed that he did not tell me I wasn't invited instead of letting me wait for him to tell me. Now he asks if we could hang out tomorrow watching a movie and 'cuddle' at his place but I have a very bad feeling that he only wants sex. I just don't feel like having sex today or tomorrow... Should I text him;
- I don't feel like it. some other time maybeVote A
- I'm busy. can't come.Vote B
- I can come over but I don't want to have sex.Vote C
- (not text him at all)Vote D
"I can come over but only to cuddle, no sex ;)"
And he texted back;
"Yes! Loads of cuddle! ;)"
So I guess I'm safe. Thank you for your help! :D