Went on a first date a couple days ago. I thought it went really well overall. I could have sworn I heard her say "I like you". But maybe not. Anyway I tried to kiss her at the end but she said "no not yet". I text her after I get home saying I had a ton of fun and that we should go out again if she wants and she responded saying she "had a great time too" and that she will see what her schedule looks like next week. I said I'd call her sometime and she said "sounds good".
So I tried calling her today. No answer. I left a message and she hasn't responded. The first time I called her to set up the first date I also left a voice mail and she did call back. But not this time.
So no kiss and her not calling back gives me a bad feeling. If she really didn't like me why would she say "not yet" for the kiss, that she "had a great time", and that it sounds good that I call her sometime. If I had no chance at a second date why would she even respond to my text afterwards?
Yeah yeah, I know...she might be busy. But it seems like in the past 8 hours she should have found time to respond. The first voice mail I left she responded to in a couple hours...
- Is she not interested?Vote A
- Is she too busy/hasn't checked her phone yet?Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
Give it more time. She could be busy, hasn't checked her phone, or doesn't want to appear too eager to return your calls quickly. If it is the last option, don't worry too much at this stage of the game. Remember, girls play games as do guys. It doesn't mean she's not interested PERIOD. Before you make any more moves, wait for her to respond.0
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