Late last night, I was trying to make plans with the guy I was dating, to meet up that night, but we each ended up having other events that came up, so our plans fell through. We agreed that we'll meet up for lunch some other day. Towards the end of that conversation, I had meant to express that I was kinda bummed I couldn't see him, so I texted him something jokingly like, "thanks for getting my hopes up tonight!" but when I think back on it, and the context (it WAS late at night), I feel like it sounded as though I was hoping to hook up with him. We don't ever meet up just to hook up, but what if that's what he thinks I want now? We are only newly dating, and we have not talked about what it is that we're doing. I don't want him to start categorizing me as someone who'd be down for a physical-only relationship, but does what I said made me sound very casual about that? How do I correct it?
I'm not sure if he took this the wrong way?
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