My fiancé and I meet on a dating website. We have been together now for 9 months. I shut my profile and everything down. When he was on the computer I noticed he had mail in his inbox from the dating wesite. He showed me his profile and it does say that he is not looking for a relationship, only to keep the friends he has made. However he is on the site for hours. Am I wrong to be jealous or feel a little suspicious?
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Some people use dating websites not just to find dates, but also to add excitement to their lives or to stroke their own egos. And it can be a bit addictive, after you've gotten used to that. At least he seems to be up-front about it, which means that it's unlikely to be him cheating, but what you should do is this:
Don't ask him to stop; rather, just explain to him that his spending so much time on that site makes you feel a llittle insecure, jealous, and even hurt. Hopefully he'll get the message and CHOOSE to back off of it some. If not, then escalate as you feel you need to.
But I would NOT rush to get married with an unresolved issue like this in your relationship.0