Ive liked this girl for a while now through two of her relationships (both with friends of mine) and even one of my own. She just got out of her realtionship and so did i. I'm compleately over my ex but idt she is over hers totaly even though she's the one who broke up with him. Three of my friends joked anound asking if I liked her I said she was cute but I wouldn't want to hurt anybody buy doing anything. Last weekend a certain something made me really talkitive and I told one of her and my best friends I know they won't tell her but I almost want her to realize somehow that I like her but I don't know how. I never texted her a lot before becouse I didn't want to tempt myself and now if I just start texting her I'm afraid she will get freeked out. I really don't want to end up loseing our friendship so I want to approach this slowly but have no idea how exactly. All I really know is that I like her alot...
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Well, she has been burned before and she is afraid to be hurt again. She seems like a girl who is still healing from a bad experience(s). She has trust issues meaning that she doubts if she will ever find a man who will treat her right. This is why she seems like she isn't looking for a relationship right now. She is pushing you away even though she might be having a crush on you. Even if she likes you, she will convince herself that you aren't good for her sanity and heart. You will be like any other guy. Yes, she is making up excuses to herself and to you. It's like a defense mechanism to protect herself. This doesn't necessarily mean that she still loves her ex. It means that she hasn't healed yet and is still hurting. It takes time, you know, especially if she is a sensitive girl with a big heart. :) The best thing to do (that I'd like to see my crush doing) is to always be there for her. Show her through actions that you care and that you are there for her. Most probably the guys she had been with were sweet-talkers but they never show any actions of love because it's more difficult. This is why show her that you do care and you do like her and that you respect that she needs time.
If you really like her, don't give up on her. :)0
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