I've been using the site plentyoffish.com. I've been talking to this guy for a couple days now through it. He's attracted to me just as much as I'm attracted to him. The only problem is he lives about an hour away and doesn't have a car but he does have a job. He wants to ask to use his bosses car so he can come and see me. I don't live by myself by the way.. I live with one of my best friends so I wouldn't be alone if he does come and see me. I could go and see him but I don't want it to be an all the time thing because obviously gas isn't that cheap. Do you think its a good idea to meet him somewhere?
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My mom and step dad met each other on this site and are now happily married 4 years. That being said you should still be cautious. Regardless of who you live with don't meet at your house as he then knows where you live and there are obvious reasons to avoid that when meeting someone online. Definitely meet him but do it somewhere public with lots of people around so if he is a freak he can't do anything to harm you, good places are malls or strip malls, places that are open and usually filled with people.0