For instance instead of asking for coffee I ask, "would you like to go out with me?" And then suggest coffee?
Or would that not work with most of you?
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I think it's the timing of it. If some guy asked me to go out on a coffee date with him after we've talked for some time I wouldn't think anything of it. Just friends/acquaintances and I would continue to believe that no matter how many coffee dates we have until he actually asks me.
Although when it actually comes to being asked out I prefer to get straight to it. No beating around the bush. I want to know your intentions.
Sooo I'd suggest going on a couple outings/dates THEN ask them out. The other way around just seems odd. "Dating after marriage" is what comes to mind. It's awkward. Plus if you find out you don't really like the person after dates and you asked them out first then you have to awkwardly break up with them and they might just think you're a d*** for turning around so quickly. Sorta like saying "you're perfect" and then taking it back.0