so weird..i made out with this guy at the bar he walked me home.. spoke the nxt day..that was it..then after a month he texts me out of nowhere to hang out I couldnt..and now calls. but I didn't answer.. I honestly don't remember how he even looked lol my friend said he was really cute..i don't want to meet up especially if don't remember him much..only that we made out alottttttttt
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It looks like you'd like him, if you thought he was cute enough to make out with him when you first met him at a bar. And I guess you made out with him alotttttt, so I guess you thought he was real cute, too. I have to say, though, and I'm being real honest here not to criticize you but to be real honest - if you made out with him like that when you first met and he waited a long time to contact you again then he probably thinks your easy and isn't too serious about you. I'd imagine he's thinking "booty call" - so just know that if you decide to go into that.
I know that it's a double standard, I'm a guy I would love to just meet up with a girl I just met that was really attractive and make out really hot, there's something steamy and sexy about that kind of encounter - but then the girl would get a label of easy and me a stud, most likely. Now it' the same interaction from both people, but one is getting praised while the other is being knocked down socially for doing the same thing based on gender. I don't like that on a fairness level but it's the way things are, really - so that's something to keep in mind. And from a guy's perspective I like that I would come out ahead in that scenario, so it's more incumbent on the female to just make sure you keep a guy in check and not let him get you to go there, he should respect that and most would. But if you give in to the temptation then any guy would take you up on it and you get the "easy" label from everyone including the guy - in retrospect it isn't worth it, especially with a guy you can't even remember.0