I am moving to a new town and in my past experiences with moving I tend to get hit on a lot for the first few months, sometimes for the first year.
So when I arrive at this new town, are there any ways I might be able to avoid this? Besides becoming a recluse who stays inside all the time. I've sworn off dating but I don't want to tell every one "no" constantly.
But in doing this, I do not want to lie, manipulate, or be something I'm not. I can't not be who I am, which is usually a nice, honest person.
And I am straight, so there are no "I'm a lesbian" possibilities. Besides, I wouldn't want to be set up with other girls.
So what are some turn offs to guys that maybe I can try out? Without lying, and yes, good hygiene is a part of me. I am not going to give up showering.
Am I just going to have to grin a bear it and turn guys down as politely as I can?
Of course I am hoping I'll just get lucky and no one will hit on me, especially since I'll have my three older guy cousins around and maybe guys will be too scared to ask me out.
But I can't rely on wishes.
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Don't become someone you're not.
I always tell my friends: be yourself and don't worry about what anyone else is doing. You can't make everyone happy. The best thing you can do you and everyone around you is be yourself. You can't change the world around you. You can't change yourself from being 'fresh meat'. You can't change how people will act. BUT what you can change is your attitude. Just have a positive attitude on life and make sure you're happy before anyone else (I'm always put others needs in front of mine and this is really hard for me to do. I don't know if it applies to you but I thought it couldn't hurt). If they are persistent block their numbers or get your cousins to take care of them.
You shouldn't stay inside. But you should not have to worry about getting hit on when you go out. Just focus on having a good time and you'll never have a bad time.
You can't control how others will act or will say. All you can do is focus on your attitude. And that should be having a good time!
P.S. Sorry I didn't give you any real advice lol2