This is the situation
I've been talking to this girl for a while now and I just got her number a few days ago . Two days after that I texted her asking "Hey , are you coming to the park today ?" ( We both run at a park and this is where we met ) . I didn't get any reply from her and it's been two days .
1.Girls , when you don't reply to a guy does that automatically imply you're not interested ? Or maybe she read my message when she was busy and forgot to reply later?
2.Girls , in this situation would you advice me to send a follow up message asking why she didn't reply or do I wait for the next time we meet face to face ?
3.Should I just behave normally when I meet her or ask her why she didn't reply ?
Most Helpful Girl
1. No - not necessarily because I'm not interested. If he's my boyfriend then I will answer right away. But for anyone else, sometimes I just don't feel like typing (e.g. I just got my nails done), sometimes I get distracted and then totally forget about the text, sometimes I just don't feel like answering. Of course, sometimes it IS because I'm not interested - I'm just saying it's not automatically that reason.
2. In your situation, I think she is ignoring you on purpose though so I would suggest taking the hint. You can send a follow up message if you want but I honestly think you are just setting yourself up for a polite rejection or being ignored again.
3. Of course you should always behave normally. What is the point of asking her why she didn't reply? That will just put her on the spot and make her uncomfortable and she will babble some sort of excuse and probably piss her off for putting her in that situation.
Again, this is my opinion. If you want to send her a text and want to interrogate her then that's your call :)0