My boyfriend is a nice guy who treats me right, respects me, and calls me beautiful. My only problem is he's always paying for me when we're out on dates or doing other things like going to the movies! I appreciate it and think it's nice, but I feel bad because he's spending money on me. I feel bad whenever anyone does this! I've tried countless times to stop him, but he would tell me no and that he wants to pay. His excuse is that he wants to be a "gentleman". I honestly think he holds the mentality that paying and buying me things will keep me around longer. Please help! What do I do?
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It's his money and he can spend it on whatever he wants. As long as you're appreciative, then I don't see the problem. Even if you don't work right now, you could suggest that he spend his money on something he'll enjoy, instead of him spending it on just you all the time.1