I really like this guy and he seems to like me too. But I get shy around him and will completely ignore him some times and send mixed messages. He loves to get me on my own when we go out in a group and have long conversations. We're currently sorta friends. The other night we were out and another guy gave me his number and I shook hands on calling him. when we were alone together later he said "you can break a shake" and "or call him to say you don't need this number." he'll also put down other guys we know that I bring up, saying theyre disgusting or mocking them.
I don't know if it's a sign that he's feeling threatened because he likes me
but later on in the conversation I said I don't like being single and he said "you'll get someone." does a guy say "someone" to a girl he likes? I feel like that was his way of saying "it won't be me" but considering how he responded about the other guy giving me his number, I feel like he feels something for me. Thoughts?
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WHY would you accept a number from a guy when you are with a guy you like?!?! I'm sorry but that is HORRIBLE! now he feels mixed signals from you too! As a guy that is around a girl that I think I have little chance of dating I will say things like "you will find the right guy" however I also bash most of the guys she hangs out with (they aren't horrible guys but they aren't good guys either)
My guess is that he likes you but you have to make it clear you like him. Stop playing these games back and forth. I don't care how you do it and he probably won't either - you could call him sometimes at night and just say "instead of calling that guy I decided id rather talk to you..." and from there procede to get yourself a date.2