I have an odd question.
I don't know why but when that special guy text or emails me I always tend to wait to reply back. I guess in my upbringing I was taught to leave them hanging. But I feel like that is wrong. I don't want to seem desperate but I don't want to seem disinterested either.
Do you consider a lengthy time to reply to any correspondence a "disinterested" indicator. What is the best thing to do. Reply and if you're busy, just say you're busy?
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This is way too overanalyzed, but I understand since it seems the "waiting to not seem too interested" is necessary for texting nowadays.
If she's not busy, probably more than a couple hours would make it seem like she's not interested, especially if I'm just hey what's up or something. And yes, if you're busy, say you're busy.1