When you've tried the speed dating thing, tried the clubs, tried online dating, tried meeting someone at work, tried having your friends introduce you to someone else... you've tried a lot over the course of 6 years... yet the farthest you've ever gotten was friends (which you never talk to ever again and who they try to avoid you)
Do you keep trying, do you give up, do you keep the faith, hope, ect... When you've tried many approaches and can no longer reason why you're still alone... What do you do?
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Exactly my point... you just reiterated right there what I just told you. You talk about giving up on finding the one yet you aren't even sure its the "one" you are looking for and right there you show all kind of doubt as to "you don't even know what you want" You also seem to be down on yourself, yes you have to have a physical attraction for any relationship to work but there is so much more that one needs to look at. When you are down on yourself like you just expressed with all the doubt, people can see that and feel that too from you. Those are things one can't hide no matter how hard they try. So to me the confidence isn't there in yourself. That is something as I mentioned a bit ago that you need to find. You need to do some soul searching and reread what I wrote because you basically just stated and supported everything I said in the first message. The dreams is a good start actually, this starts to show you how you view your relationship that you want to be in with your significant other.0