Ok... a guy and I have been dating a guy and I went out with him like 3 times. All of those 3 times has been HIS suggestion and HE was the one that asked ME out. Although whenever we are with friends, he says that he is SO ADAMANT about not starting a relationship and that he is supposedly not interested in me. Although he always says that I am beautiful and is always affectionate and he looks like he wants to kiss me half the time.
I am seriously confused... what.. is he ashamed of me or something?
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He's scared of commitment. He likes you and probably would like to start something off, but he's probably heard so many bad stories involving girls that he's lost confidence in being with a girl.
When you guys are with friends, he's probably more open and revealing. Because they're just friends and are there to hear his rants or his views.
But when he's with you, you won't hear that truth from him. Because you're not his friend. You're a different audience. A potential love interest. But only if he stops having doubts about girls and starts believing that a relationship with you or whichever girl he goes after would be worthwhile.0